Icebreakers are your chance to send special people an instant message without having had a match with them. With your Icebreaker, you can literally break the ice between you.

Basic members are entitled to one Icebreaker a day. Premium members can send three Icebreakers a day. So it is always something special to send or receive an Icebreaker.
The icebreaker is your first contact with another person. We therefore recommend that you design your icebreakers individually and creatively. Copy & paste when interacting with real people never goes down well. Show your best side, your personality (humorous, charming, elegant or cool) and your genuine interest by responding to the other person's profile or profile pictures. Sometimes it's the first impression that counts.

Your Icebreaker was rejected? Cheer up. Stay active and send a creative message to the next interesting person. You may soon have sent the first message for the last time. You can find some more inspiration for future Icebreakers on our blog.