We want to save our female members from overcrowded inboxes. This means they are not only on the defensive and answer countless Icebreakers, but also have time to be active in the match and give likes. In addition, the icebreakers take on greater significance due to the limitation. Ideally, they are personal and individual messages that express an honest interest and therefore have a higher chance of success.

So avoid just a short "Hi, how are you" and instead draw attention to yourself with a creative and personalized message among all the competition.